Little mistake in the beginning, grows big mistake in the
end.
What does that mean?
There was a young girl full of happiness and joy, and full
of life. She lived alone in her apartment.
Because of the commonly accepted modern disregard towards
oneself and the opposite sex, she thought normal to find a “boyfriend” under
such circumstances. Since she was young, beautiful, smart and funny, it was not
hard for her to find a boyfriend. The only problem was whom she will choose
because there were many of them. She decided to date a guy who seemed like
right one. He was from good family and spend lots of time with her. He didn’t
contradict her, and he was not violent.
However, this girl, although coming from the family where
she was loved, was not well raised. That was because her parents were not aware
of causes of their problems and dissatisfaction. That was the reason why this
girl didn’t know anything about devotion to self, spirituality, about keeping
one’s dignity. Because of the narrow-mindedness of the society, she was not
even thinking why God has given obvious virginity to women.
That’s why she got into the relationship with a guy who was
immature, and not even close to the capability of making clear boundaries, and
that he could completely choose her. She wasn’t aware that such men are worst
for women, and that such man couldn’t and shouldn't be trusted.
Her parents were “optimists” and blind with their eyes. They
knew that their daughter is special and brilliant, and they didn’t know that
unfaithfulness and promiscuity destroy even such exceptional persons.
Because of doubtfulness and unconscious unfaithfulness, this
relationship falls apart quickly. After the breakup, the young man was still
present in her life in a way and in her apartment, although they didn’t date,
they were still being intimate because he was often in her apartment.
After the breakup, she was severely hurt because of the
bigotry of the modern society. She didn’t pay attention to that but she wanted
to repeat the same relationship with another man, and she thought that the next
relationship will succeed.
She has also found a good boyfriend who would do everything
for her. He was ever more mature, he was driving a car, coming when she called
him, sleeping and spending time in her apartment. However, she was very unhappy
and lonely in that relationship. She thought as if something was wrong with her
since the guy was so kind, and she doesn’t appreciate that, so she thought that
she doesn’t deserve him. She was still not acquainted with the hidden
promiscuity that is presently lived under the explanation of extramarital
communities, and fictitious modern love relationships. She didn’t know that
there is nothing worse for the woman than having sex with a man, without being
married to him. When a man loves a woman, he primarily thinks about her heart
and her dignity, so he gives her security when it comes to that through the
decision and taking vows as getting married, and he gives her the gift of
permanence when it comes to faithfulness and feelings.
The neighbors also started looking suspiciously at her,
because when there is one guy after another, then no one is indifferent to
that.
Therefore, when another relationship was broken, she was
only left with: working on herself and mending her wounds, so that she could
gain at least some faith in herself and men. However, since she hasn’t learned
anything, she would start new relationships until she is spiritually ruined. In
the end, she married the man she didn’t love, neither she was capable of
surrender to him. She had a restless marriage in misery, and sickness came.
That’s because the young man is capable of being dedicated to the first love
relationship 100%. The second relationship has a chance if one makes effort.
The third relationship is already a chaos of life.
Therefore, the girl eventually married and started the
family, but does the whole story seems as a happy fairytale and success?
The message is following:
A minor initial error makes a lot of damage in the end. It
always seems to people, let’s enjoy, fulfilling our wishes and pander to
passions, it’s probably going to turn out well. However, such behavior is sin
and irresponsibility towards oneself and others which as result has a total
disaster.
I am always saying that children are the result of parents’
upbringing. However, I know that there are parents who love a lot their
children and wish them all the best, and for real. I have addressed this text
to these people.
It is very important for the people to give up on the belief
that there may be ''modern relationships''. The only certain and safe thing is
the marriage with the mutual consent and decision.
Why would risk your and your children’s lives?
Many people think that there are risks in life. They do,
only if you act wrongly. In reality, life is certain if you are dedicated to
God and love. Don’t you ever think that something would turn out well out of
the incorrect, promiscuous and immoral behavior? Never trust to ''boyfriend''
and ''girlfriend'' relationship.
This text means that parents must realize this truth and
invest all their strength and patience to explain to their children that
impatience and promiscuous enjoyment bring loss of dignity, and the loss of
happiness with itself as well capacity for faith, faithfulness, and love. The
truth is that God established virginity and marriage that people would ensure
their happiness, their dignity and their devotion in love.
Even many modern psychotherapists are complete enemies and
idiots, so they teach people irresponsible sexuality and ego realization via
betrayal, unfaithfulness and lack of dignity.
This means that any advice and any direction outside
spirituality and orientation to God are pure evil and misfortune for the man.
Parents, protect or save your children! Don’t let partners
sleep under the same roof, before the clear decision and accepted
responsibility, because, looked from this view, it just seems as a minor
mistake that can be fixed.
Be blessed.
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